Have you ever thought to yourself: ”How long should I wait to call her?” You went out on a first date with her. You took her out to try something exciting like salsa dancing or maybe you went out for a cup of tee. You two really connected and had a great time together. After the date you gave her a nice hug or a kiss of goodbye and told her that you would call her later.

Now the next day you are wondering: “How long should I wait to call…

How to apologize to a woman?

Before I reveal the last part, let me quickly summarize the first four parts.

In the first part, I discussed how it is helpful if you are open to the possibility that you might have done something to cause her upset.

In the second part, I revealed how to actually test to find out if she is upset at you or whether it is something else that she is stressed out about.

In the third part, I explained how to properly say I am sorry.…

Have you ever asked yourself how to pursue a man or whether you should even pursue one? Maybe you met a guy that you really liked, but was just not sure how to approach him. Maybe you saw him at your school, at your work place, your salsa dance class, or your local grocery story. Something about him made you think to yourself: “Wow, he is really cute” or maybe you even said to your friend: “Now that guy is hot”.

You begun to wonder: “Now how could I get…

This is the fourth part of the five part series on how to apologize to a woman.

If you missed the first three parts, go read them here:

How To Apologize To A Woman – Part I
How To Apologize To A Woman – Part II
How To Apologize To A Woman – Part III

If you have been following these articles this far, some of you maybe asking: “Well Mikko, if this apologizing stuff is so hard, is it really even worth it?” ☺

Ironically, sometimes we men feel like we would rather go out…

Dear Mikko, the question I have in my mind is “Should I text him?” Here is my situation.

I met this guy online 5 years ago. We have been pen paling ever since. He has always been very sweet but the problem then was that he lived in another state. We tried to meet in real life a few times when he moved to the same city that I now live, but it never quite seemed to work out.

But about a month ago I had two basketball tickets and invited…

Have you ever been dating a guy and asked yourself: “Should I call him or should I not call him?”

If you are like most women, I am sure you have. You might have even read some books or articles about this very question. Maybe you have even read the book or saw the movie “He Is Just Not That Into You”, which probably just left you even more confused.

Whatever the case may be, here you are reading this article probably in conflict feeling like your thoughts are tearing you…

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Dear Mikko, I just read your article “Should You Date A Guy Who Is Already Taken?” on your blog post. I really like your relationship advice. This post particularly well described how I am feeling and what I am going through right now. I feel like the guy that I am seeing is not the perfect one for me, but still for some reason I cannot help but be attracted to him.

I met him at school. At the time we met he had not seen his girlfriend…

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Dear Mikko,

I am in a relationship with an older, married, once divorced man. He is a total macho and a gentleman. For the most part we both travel a lot and we don’t get to see each other that often, maybe once every week or two weeks. When we decide to go out we compare calendars to try to find some time that works for both. Every time we do see each other we have sex like rabbits, in fact for the first couple of months I was…

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Dear Mikko, what’s your take on salsa relationships? How can one have a successful relationship/marriage while being involved in salsa where there is so much flirtation, deception and sleeping around? Just yesterday I found out that one of my salsa friends wants to leave her husband because of an affair she is carrying on with her salsa partner (who is in a long term “committed” relationship with someone who he has already cheated on in the past with a salsa girl). And she’s already cheated on him…

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Have you ever wondered how to apologize to your wife or girlfriend or women in general? If so, you have come to the right place.

If you missed the first two parts to the art of apology, make sure to check them out here:

How To Apologize To A Woman – Part I
How To A Apologize To A Woman – Part II

After you have found out that she is upset with you, the key at this point is to make sure you stay in control of your feelings.…