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By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 19:24:26 +0000

Thanks. A lot of food for thought. I have and do date players, it is funny because they really think they are getting over on you. When you are a mature woman and want a casual connection, they are ideal. The sad part is after a while you experience that same let down of relationships that are transient and meaningless. The high is there at first in the chase, having a hot guy pursue you. The reality is that it means little to the conquerer except getting the conquest, most times this person lacking in relationship skills is usually disappointing sexually as well (because of the lack of knowing about really connecting). When you have experienced the real magic of having a chemical, mind and body experience with someone you know the difference. You have to look at your own personal self motivation before entering into this type of affair, it can be very enlightening.

By: Mikko Kemppe

Mikko Kemppe — Mon, 07 Sep 2009 21:11:45 +0000

Yes, I agree with you Honey that timing can have a lot to do with finding the right one. More on that subject let me advertise here one of my other articles :
“How Do You Know You Have Found The Right One?”

By: Honey

Honey — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 19:52:15 +0000

I found that while I bemoaned not finding “the right guy” and being a “committmentphobe” when I was younger, my youth was at least part of the reason that I couldn’t make a relationship work. I’m grateful every day for the timing, because had I met the BF earlier I might not have been capable of being the partner that he needed and deserves.

By: Mikko, Why Can’t I Find “Mrs. Right,” Now That I Am Ready To Settle? |

Fri, 14 Aug 2009 17:03:36 +0000

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