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Hearing from a man the very words, “how you/women are not burdening men by asking more” is as calming and therapeutic as chamomile to a fragile infant. I also observed that the more a woman loves a man, the more “conscious” she becomes to accept favours from him. Inversely the more a man is into a woman, the more “cautious” he becomes of what, when and how to give. However these are my mere personal observations from where I am coming from.

I have huge faith that with your upcoming post, most if not all of these myths and fallacies would eventually be dispelled. Thank you for consistently helping both men and women to grow more in greater sense of love, acceptance and understanding.

All the best!

thanks for sharing your honest feelings and thoughts. Yes, what you are describing is unfortunately a self-imposed prison and a reality for many women. Many of our thoughts and beliefs about life have been ingrained in us through our upbringing. Fortunately, as adults we can change our beliefs or choose to believe differently. The ideas I share here may be out of their immediate experience and reality for some. Your concern is very valid and I agree that many women feel that they are imposing themselves by asking more and feel guilty for receiving. To certain degree most of us, men and women, feel unworthy of love or like we don’t deserve more at some point or another in our lives, especially when we really want to reach out for our dreams. Next week I will be posting a follow up post to this one (”Why Men Often Seem Like They Are Unwilling To Help?)  that will even further help you realize how you are not burdening men by asking more.

Thank you for referring me to this post. You sure have opened a brand new concept which I can pour my thoughts into and moreso, impart with the rest of my peers and girl friends. I have a follow-up concern though that you might have a helpful insight to respond to: I have observed that among women, asking is just half of their dilemmas. The other half of the concern here is their feelings upon receiving. Whenever women receive something from men they either: (1) feel gratitude and appreciation – as what you are helping us readers to accept and understand. Or (2) feel being imposing for the favour given and eventually see themselves as a burden to men. I am sad but choose to be honest and say that: for some women they are sincerely challenged to believe how men actually give great importance to making the women in their lives happy. Mikko, please help.