Comments on: Mikko, I Have Cheated On My Wife. What Should I Do?

By: majorshadow

majorshadow — Fri, 10 Dec 2010 23:41:48 +0000

Song Title: “What did I do?”
Subject: Infidelity
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By: I Have Cheated In My Relationship, Now What Should I Do? | Relationship, Dating, Divorce, Advice, & Expriences by Mikko Kemppe

Mon, 01 Mar 2010 18:15:52 +0000

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Are Children Of Interracial Couples Worse Off? | — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 18:40:27 +0000

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By: Mikko Kemppe

Mikko Kemppe — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 19:23:38 +0000

Hi Urbanchick,

I have also heard interesting debates about this idea of chemistry and whether it is needed for LTR. And I agree with you,
I think it is important for both men and women to feel chemistry and physical attraction to their mates. Thanks for sharing your views!

By: urbanchick

urbanchick — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 10:27:37 +0000

Good advice, I wish OP all the best! It’s great that he’s reflecting on his actions and coming to understand his motives.

There’s a lot of advice out there for single people about whether chemistry should be a consideration for LTR and marriage, often for women dating guys who meet all the ‘criteria’ but just don’t have the spark (perhaps it’s because women tend to seek advice more often than men?).

I’ve always thought that, regardless of man or woman, you MUST be phisically attracted to your mate. it’s not the only criteria but it’s one. And if it’s not there, it never will be so don’t question it. I have women friends who were in the same position as OP, married for the wrong reasons and ended up divorced. Once they recovered emotionally they went onto find more suitable mates.