Dating Tip For Guys: The Best Pick-Up Line
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I am sure there has been a time when you have seen a beautiful woman, maybe it was at a club or maybe she was standing ahead of you in line at a grocery store. You wanted to approach her, but then thought, “What I am going to say to her? How should I approach her?” Or maybe you have read some books about the best pick-up lines or great approaches to picking up women and you have tried some with varying success. Well, in this post I am going to share what I think is the most underestimated and best pick-up line around. ☺
But first, let me explain something that I think will be to your benefit. Your ultimate goal is to get this lady to agree on a date with you, right?
Realize that even the best pick-up line won’t help unless you prepare yourself before delivering it. If you are asking yourself: “Mikko, what in the world are you talking about?” let me explain.
The truth is that women often notice things about you way before you do or say anything. Women are often very intuitive and observant. They can often see how you treat or interact with others, or how you carry yourself. The truth is that way before you even approach her she has probably already developed a mental image of how trustworthy, purposeful, responsible, and confident you are. These all qualities you want to develop an cultivate to become irresistible to women ☺.
See, women usually develop their attraction to men first mentally. This is often done before you have even taken a single step toward approaching her. So, this being the case, it is important that you recognize how women perceive you and your qualities because it is these very qualities that will make you attractive to her.
For example, if you don’t stand up straight or carry yourself with confidence, no matter how good your pick-up line is, you may not get the date. ”What if I don’t have much confidence?” you might ask? Of course you weren’t born with all the qualities she is looking for, but these certainly are qualities that you can develop and cultivate.
Throughout my childhood I was very shy. I still remember the first date that I ever had. I was scared to death. I did not know what I was going to say or do. I remember just sitting with her in her room too scared to open my mouth because I was afraid to say the wrong thing ☺. Nobody had ever told me what you were supposed to do on a date and in Finland we did not see Hollywood movies showing how a guy takes a girl out to a movie and dinner. And even if we did, you had to be 18 to get a driver’s license, so it would not have worked. ☺
How did I go from being this shy kid to becoming a relationship expert? Well, part of it was that I simply learned more about relationships. And believe me, you don’t have to become someone you are not to portray being confident. Simply realizing that you have what it takes to sweep a woman off her feet will help you gain confidence. And to develop more of that confidence, start reading self-help books, attend personal growth seminars, and of course, keep reading my blog, and you will soon be well on your way to feeling really confident about yourself.
Because the truth is that the better you feel about yourself and the more purposeful, confident, and responsible you seem and become, the better the pick-up line that I am going to give you will work.
The mistake we men often make with women in dating and relationships is that we try to concentrate on learning specific techniques or formulas, and the truth is formulas often won’t work (especially in the bedroom, another blog I will save for later ☺). Concentrating on techniques or formulas works well with making money or developing computer software, but this won’t necessarily work as well with women.
Because see you will not win over a woman by using a specific technique, or you might. But in either case what makes you much more special and impresses a woman much more is when you are your authentic, purposeful, responsible, confident, loving self.
So before I reveal you my killer pick up line, let’s explore these qualities a little further just for a moment.
Why do women love a guy who is purposeful? Because when a woman sees that a man is purposeful, she sees that he is using his energy toward accomplishing a goal, (a career or business goal for example). She sees someone who is ambitious and wants more from life. When a woman feels that a man has a purpose, she can start to imagine how great it would feel when he directs some of this purposeful energy towards her. She suddenly starts to feel attracted to him as she sees the potential for receiving some of his purposeful energy. And while no woman ever wants to become the sole target for this energy and attention, imagining how good it might feel to receive some of it makes you very attractive to her.
In addition, when you seem responsible and able to take care of yourself, she can simply feel relaxed around you; she can start to trust you. She can be sure that no matter what happens, you can handle and take care of yourself. She can feel that she has an equal partner. Instead of worrying about you, she can just relax and receive what you have to offer. Whenever a woman feels that she does not have to worry about you and that she can focus on feeling cared for herself, she will begin to find you more and more irresistible.
Long before you have approached her or come forward with a pick-up line, she has already created a complete mental picture about you. Whether this perception is accurate or not, realize that it carries much more weight in determining whether or not your pick-up line will work. So, first ask yourself, do you seem like someone who is responsible, trustworthy, purposeful, authentic, and confident?
The way you think about yourself will determine how the woman thinks about you. The old truth that unless you believe in yourself it is hard for others to believe in you is simply true. So start by believing yourself first and cultivating some of the qualities that I described and the pick-up line that I will give you will carry tremendous power. So having said that here goes my secret. The best pick-up line is simply to introduce yourself and say: “Hi, my name is _______. What’s your name?” And after she tells you her name, you say: “Nice to meet you.” That’s it.
Just remember, by introducing yourself to her first, you will already appear more confident, purposeful, and responsible and you will be on your way to dating success. So, now that I have revealed my secret, come back and let us know if it worked for you. Share your questions or comments.
Wishing you good luck with my best pick-up line!
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