Comments on: Multiple Dating Vs. One-At-A-Time Dating, Which One Is Better?

By: Why Honesty Is The Best Policy When Dating | Dating Coach, Relationship Coach, Dating Advice, Dating Tips With Mikko Kemppe

Tue, 11 May 2010 17:32:41 +0000

[...] and how I really learned a lesson of why honesty is the best policy, especially what comes to multiple dating. Sometime ago I was dating multiple people simultaneously. I personally think it is a good idea to [...]

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Adult dating — Fri, 30 Apr 2010 04:13:40 +0000

I would definitely choose multiple dating, it's quite obvious that you have more chances to meet your match like this. However, I might be wrong, but that's what I believe.

By: Dear Mikko, Am I Having A Facebook Affair? | Relationship, Dating, Divorce, Advice, & Expriences by Mikko Kemppe

Sun, 11 Apr 2010 22:52:54 +0000

[...] my advice to you is this. First find out if he really is in an exclusive committed relationship or if is he just dating? If he is, then really carefully consider if he really is even worth your time to consider building [...]

By: Mikko Kemppe

Mikko Kemppe — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 04:49:53 +0000

Thanks for your comments Sheila and Ricardo!

To Ricardo, I don’t think it has to be a double-edged sword for guys. I believe that as long as you are being honest with your dates that you are seeing some other people as well, I don’t think it should be a problem for anyone. How did you see multiple dating being a double-edged sword?

To Sheila, I think there is really no time guidelines that I would be able to advice you on in regards to how long casual dating would be helping you in your quest for long-term relationship.

While, you may not go out merely to have a good time, I think that learning to have positive dating experiences is one of the best ways to prepare yourself to a healthy and fulfilling long-term relationship.

I am simply suggesting that while long-term relationship may be your ultimate goal, you might find that by letting go of the attachment that you want it to happen fast, might actually get you there faster.

It is also completely normal to be concerned that you might end up empty handed whether you date multiple or one person at a time.

And of course, many may be happier dating only one person at a time. I just think that there is nothing wrong with dating more than one person at a time and that the more dates you actually go to, the faster you might actually find the right one for you.

I really wish you all of the best in your journey to find the right partner for you and I hope that you will continue to stay in touch with our community to help you support you in that journey!
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By: Ricardo

Ricardo — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 03:08:12 +0000

This is a classic post. It can be a double-edged sword for guys. I happy to believe that the multiple dating method is best. I know this would piss off a lot of girls, but it does help you to set a strong personal boundary. I like this post.

By: sheila chan

sheila chan — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 04:32:42 +0000

Mikko, thank you for another well explained suggestion.

And let’s say I take your advice. Although this is not a matter of time, please give me some guidelines until how long casual dating is helping my quest for long-term relationship? I am not out to merely have a good time, but to find that special someone. I am concern the “next guy please” mantra might eventually be doing a disservice to myself for missing the “One”. I’d be most unhappy to see myself keeping on moving from one prospect after another only to end up empty handed.