Dear Mikko, I have read that you should not have sex too early in a relationship or that a girl shouldn’t “give it up” to use sex as a way to lure a man into a relationship. But why is it that I have to be the one to figure out how to say no to sex? And for how long should I wait? I am not one for casual sex and I intend to find someone I can have a long term relationship with, but I am seeing a…
It is interesting to me how I sometimes begin to choose the topics for my blog posts based on the questions that I am personally struggling with in my life.
Or sometimes someone asks a question that seems to force me to become clearer about some personal issue to me that I am either dealing with or have dealt with in the past.
Having said this, it is no different with this post.
Without going to personal details, let me share something with you.
Friend of mine asked me not…
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Dear Mikko,
I am in a relationship with an older, once married divorced man. He is a total macho and a gentleman. For the most part we both travel a lot and we don’t get to see each other that often, maybe once every week or two weeks. When we decide to go out we compare calendars to try to find some time that works for both. Every time we do see each other we have sex like rabbits, in fact for the first couple of months I was…
So, you’ve found this great guy. He makes you laugh, he is good looking, he makes you feel like a woman, and you two have a fantastic time together. You can’t help but be in awe of how romantic he is and how he seems to understand you and what you think. It seems like you share so much. You have great conversations, and even the sex with him is out of this world. In your mind, you are thinking he is the perfect guy for you; he…
In this video Mikko Kemppe gives a tip to guys who want to have sex, but are not ready for a committed relationship. To read the full article version of this video, click here.
Have you ever thought what fun it might be to have more than one loving partner in your relationship? After all, many people commonly accept the idea that the romance and passion in relationships eventually fade after few years. So, in order to introduce some new passion into the relationship, why not have more than one romantic or sexual partner? Or, maybe even better, would it not make sense to have the best of both worlds – the comfort and safety of a marriage, as well as another…
Have you ever wondered what is the real reason that men cheat? Maybe you are wondering why Tiger Woods cheated? Or maybe you are a woman reading this and have been cheated on before, or maybe you’re a guy curious about what I have to say. Whatever the reason, I’m sure by now you have probably come across some good and some not so good theories of why men cheat. I have certainly heard and read a lot about this, and unfortunately, have come across many shallow theories.…
Talking about masturbation can bring up a lot of unresolved feelings. Why? Well, first off, for centuries it has often been considered an act of sin.
Yet, learning to feel good about our bodies and ourselves is a completely natural part of life. Since the act of pleasuring ourselves feels good and yet it is often considered to be a sinful act that you should be a shamed of, this often makes us feel very confused. And since it is a topic that is rarely talked about, many people…
Question from Arizona Dater:
Mikko,
I agree with a lot of your advice to women, but something you don’t consider is how a guy is going to feel when he gets dumped before he has a chance to have sex with his girl. The more I have invested in a girl, the more I want to have sex with her.
My worst dating nightmare is doing everything I can to make a woman happy for two months and then finding out she’s never going to sleep with me.…
Read the full version of the advice below!
You have just met this great guy and he has taken you on a few dates. You have known each other for a couple weeks and you really like him. This particular evening, you have ended up at your place on your cozy couch, watching a movie. The movie has ended, and all of a sudden things have gotten steamy.
He is making moves and you feel that he wants to go all of the way. All of a sudden, all kind…
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