24 March 2010 ~ Comments

Dating Up-Date – Why Do Men And Women Play Dating Games?

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Here is what some of you have been waiting for ☺. A short dating up-date from my personal life :) . My date and I went to a nice jazz club last Saturday and they had a killer band playing. I used my strategy to compliment her (see my previous post: How To Compliment A Woman?) and scored some brownie points (At least so I hope ☺).

After the jazz club she wanted to go salsa dancing, so we headed to a local salsa club (I think she just wanted to see my…

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16 March 2010 ~ Comments

My Recent Embarrassing Dating Moment – I Fell On My Face

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I thought I would share a recent embarrassing moment from one of my recent dating adventures.

It is a lot of fun for me to write and coach others about relationships. And it is very easy for me to sit in my ivory tower to ditch out advice to those in need.

But I have recently realized that by simply writing about relationship and dating advice from a status of an expert somewhat removes my ability to share with you how I personally try to practice what I preach.

So this…

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12 March 2010 ~ Comments

When Is The Right Time To Have Sex? My Personal Quest To Find The Answer.

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It is interesting to me how I sometimes begin to choose the topics for my blog posts based on the questions that I am personally struggling with in my life.

Or sometimes someone asks a question that seems to force me to become clearer about some personal issue to me that I am either dealing with or have dealt with in the past.

Having said this, it is no different with this post.

Without going to personal details, let me share something with you.

Friend of mine asked me not…

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17 November 2009 ~ Comments

Is Michelle Obama’s Relationship Advice For Finding The Right One Good?

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Just recently on an interview for a magazine, Mrs. Obama urges women not to choose men simply because they are “cute”. “Cute is good. But cute only lasts for so long, and then it’s, Who are you as a person?,” she said.” Don’t look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul.” When you’re dating a man, you should always feel good. You shouldn’t be in a relationship with somebody who doesn’t make you completely happy and make you feel whole.”…

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14 October 2009 ~ Comments

On-Line Dating, Have You Tried It?

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Have you ever tried on-line dating sites? Do you have any experiences to share? I would love to hear from you? What have you find good or bad about them?

I have seen many of these on-line dating sites getting more and more popular and a part of me wanted to try one, but then on a second thought I just could not see my-self paying for any of them just to try to connect with people. So with that thought I decided to create a brand new entirely free…

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25 July 2009 ~ Comments

Can Salsa Dance Partners Be “Just Partners”?

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Okay, if you are reading this, you are probably a dancer or maybe are just curious about the topic. Maybe you have a friend of the opposite sex and you are wondering whether a man and woman can just be friends.

In the Salsa and other dance communities there are lots of interesting relationships. Many individuals have girlfriends and boyfriends, yet also have a dance partner of the opposite sex. Some are married couples or are in a relationship and are dance partners as well. Still other dance partners…

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