01 January 2010 ~ Comments

Dear Mikko, Should I Really Take Your Relationship Advice?

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Dear Mikko, I just read your article “Should You Date A Guy Who Is Already Taken?” on your blog post. I really like your relationship advice. This post particularly well described how I am feeling and what I am going through right now. I feel like the guy that I am seeing is not the perfect one for me, but still for some reason I cannot help but be attracted to him.

I met him at school. At the time we met he had not seen his girlfriend…

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16 October 2009 ~ Comments

Mikko, I Have Cheated On My Wife. What Should I Do?

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Mikko, I chose my wife very logically. We matched up on nearly 100% of things: on our way of life, way of thinking, on our goals, and so on. I thought that this common ground was the most important for a long-lasting relationship. So, I decided she’d be the one. I chose that over the physical attraction. Never really felt any, but I thought this would not really matter. It was quite easy to pretend at the beginning. But after a couple years, I cheated on her with…

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17 August 2009 ~ Comments

Why Do Women Cheat?

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To be fair, after having written the article about why men cheat, I decided to write a parallel article about women. If you read my theory about men cheating, you learned that both men and women often cheat out of ignorance, or – more politely, out of lack of awareness. To understand what I mean by cheating out of ignorance, please go back and read my previous article on this topic.

The interesting thing about women cheating is that while men have cheated on women for centuries, it…

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12 August 2009 ~ Comments

Why Do Men Cheat?

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Have you ever wondered what is the real reason that men cheat? Maybe you are wondering why Tiger Woods cheated? Or maybe you are a woman reading this and have been cheated on before, or maybe you’re a guy curious about what I have to say. Whatever the reason, I’m sure by now you have probably come across some good and some not so good theories of why men cheat. I have certainly heard and read a lot about this, and unfortunately, have come across many shallow theories.…

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